Post-Affair Break-Up: Coping

Infidelity & Affair Help: Barton Goldsmith

10 Things to Remember After a Break-Up by Barton Goldsmith Ph.D. (edited) We have all been through it and, at best, a breakup is a difficult situation. Here are some tips and advice to help you make it through this rough patch. 1. You are not going to be thinking …

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Beauty and the Infidelity Beast

Infidelity & Affair Help: A Fresh Perspective

Just Because You’re Hot Doesn’t Mean He Won’t Cheat by Hugo Schwyzer (edited) If your partner ranks lower on the “attractiveness scale” than you do, is he more likely to stay faithful? Conventional wisdom says yes. It assumes that less attractive people have fewer opportunities to stray, and that the …

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The Impact of Infidelity on Sex

Infidelity & Sexual Recovery

Erotic Recovery After Infidelity by Dr Tammy Nelson (edited) Erotic recovery is a fundamental part of healing after an affair. Your erotic life together is a very basic relationship need. After infidelity, going back to being erotically and intimately connected with your partner can be complicated. Erotic recovery encompasses all …

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Divorce: 5 Good Things to Know

Teri Goetz, Divorce

Five Ways to Grow From a Divorce By Teri Goetz Change I woke this morning to 22 degrees, much too early in the year for these temperatures. Two days ago, it was nearly 50. Such a quick drop in temperature was kind of a shock when walking out the door. …

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Infidelity: What Not To Do

Infidelity & Affair Help: Chump Lady

What Not To Do If You’ve Been Cheated On: Pointers for Chumps by Tracy Schorn Very few people navigate infidelity gracefully. Accept that you’re going to wobble and fail sometimes. It’s okay. The goal here, upon finding out that you’ve been cheated on, is to take back your power, maintain …

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Processing the Pain of Infidelity

Amy Fabulous, Relationships and Infidelity

A Columnist’s Personal Experience of Infidelity ‘Amy Fabulous’ is a columnist who wrote this article about the pain of infidelity in her own life: This time last year, I was in Paris with the man I thought I’d spend the rest of my life with. I trusted my partner and …

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