Infidelity Help Forum
Infidelity & Affair Discussion Boards
PLEASE DO YOUR RESEARCH BEFORE REGISTERING WITH US.
This is a non-traditional and secular infidelity support site with a strong focus on challenging the traditional/popular approach to infidelity.
We will encourage you to set aside emotionally driven responses. We will approach your situation by providing rational, experience-based advice.
Our direct, challenging, and matter-of-fact tone is not a good fit for everyone.
Before You Register With Us:
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IHG firmly opposes Standing, ‘loving them through it’, and Divorce Avoidance Plans.
- IHG is a staff-led forum, not a traditional peer support group.
- We take a no-nonsense approach to the issues of infidelity and dysfunction in direct, unequivocal language.
- If you are unwilling to seriously entertain options other than Standing, we are not the right forum for you.
- IHG focuses on the individual, not the relationship outcome; we do not advocate for reconciliation, divorce, or even marriage itself.
- We do not encourage people to stay in dysfunctional relationships.
- We don’t see it as valuable, valid, or supportive to attribute a cheater’s choices to a disease state or compulsion.
- IHG rejects popular Affair Fog Theory.
- We don’t believe that staying in dysfunction ‘for the kids’ is healthy (for them or you).
- We do not provide counsel to cheaters or affair partners in active affairs within this forum.
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