Infidelity Help Chat Room

Challenging traditional and popular views and myths about infidelity.

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We want you to make choices that are reasoned, clear, and authentic, and we shall never suggest that saving your marriage and then remaining unhappily in it is ‘success’.

  • We don’t see any success in encouraging someone to stay in a dysfunctional or abusive relationship.
  • We don’t see it as valuable, valid, or supportive to attribute a cheater’s choices to a disease state or compulsion, and do not encourage belief in excuse smog.
  • We don’t see any virtue in staying in a relationship where you do not have equal voice, equal rights to independence, and equal commitment to shared values.
  • We don’t see courage in taking the easier path just because it’s easier.
  • We don’t believe that staying in dysfunction ‘for the kids’ is healthy (for them or you).
  • We don’t see willing martyrdom and self-sacrifice at the altar of a cheater as a victory.
  • We don’t support Standing.

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