Affair Fog Theory Conclusion: Excuse Smog

Affair Fog Theory: Excuse Smog is Man Made

Part 7: Affair Fog Theory Conclusion: Excuse Smog Affair fog theory makes a case to dismiss the cheater’s choices in an affair as the product of confused, compromised, or limited thinking, and provides the faithful spouse with a palatable narrative for the cheater’s behaviors. Each element of affair fog seeks to provide a palliative …

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Affair Fog Theory: Biochemistry

The Affair Excuse: Dopamine

Part 6: Affair Fog Theory: Biochemistry Is your morning cup of java compelling you to abandon your family and head to deepest, darkest Indonesia to pursue a blissful life picking coffee beans? Are you secretly planning a civil marriage ceremony to your treadmill, family and critics be dammed? What about those cupcakes, …

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Affair Fog Theory: Morphing

Blurred Face by AlexisBalcerzak

Part 5: Affair Fog Theory: Morphing One of the questions that hits the faithful spouse early on in the post-affair discovery  process is, “Why?” Why did the person we married, whom we trusted and committed our whole lives to – why did they have an affair? The need to know …

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Affair Fog Theory: Character Change

Who Are You

Part 4: Affair Fog Theory: Character Change Part 1: What is Affair Fog? Part 2: Affair Fog Theory: Mental Health Part 3: Affair Fog Theory: Sex Addiction Who IS This Person? I know him better than anybody – he’s not the man I’ve known for 20 years.” “I don’t even …

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Affair Fog Theory: Sex Addiction

Infidelity & Affair Help: The Myth of Sex Addiction

Part 3: Affair Fog Theory: Sex Addiction This third part of the affair fog series looks at the issue of sex addiction and whether it has validity as part of affair fog theory. It’s a lengthy article in order to adequately explore such a popular claim. Part 1: Affair Fog …

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Affair Fog Theory: Mental Health

The Affair Excuse: Mental Health

Part 2: Affair Fog Theory: Mental Health Part 1 of the Affair Fog Series identified common components of popular affair fog theory as including mental health disorders, sex/love addiction, character change, psychological morphing, and biochemicals. This post specifically discusses if mental health disorders can legitimately be considered affair fog. When faced with a cheater’s …

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