10 Reasons Not to Take Back a Cheating Husband by Kiri Blakeley Being cheated on is probably the most devastating thing that can happen to a relationship short of the other person dying. Actually, it can FEEL like your partner has died when you find how he (or she) has been cheating. It feels like […]
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After Affair Discovery: Taking Your Time
Often, in the immediate aftermath of affair discovery, the faithful partner feels significant pressure to ‘decide’ and to ‘act’. Not only does ‘taking action’ help negate the sense of powerlessness, but there can be considerable external pressures to behave in certain ways. On sites such as these, there is often a disapproval for decisions that […]
Affair Help: Negative Thoughts and Acceptance
An affair can bring your self-esteem and view of the world crashing down around you, while you stand frozen in rage and disbelief. Moving past outrage and moralizing about what is wrong about an affair can be difficult. Most affair help offers very little in concrete advice for how to deal with the emotional fallout […]
Affair Help: Preparing for Reality
Whilst this article gives some advice for women with cheating husbands, much of it could be equally applicable to men whose wives are cheating, and people in non-marital relationships. Unfortunately some of these tips, while valuable, may be a little late, because to be effective in an affair situation they needed to be implemented before […]
Affairs: Letting Go of the Past
Affairs: Victor or Victim - It’s Your Choice by Elizabeth Denham As long as you think that the cause of your problem is “out there”-as long as you think that anyone or anything is responsible for your suffering-the situation is hopeless. It means that you are forever in the role of victim, that you’re suffering […]